Denny Ray Nelson, 80, of Ruckersville, VA passed away peacefully on October 2, 2026, at home after a lengthy illness.

Denny grew up in Grove, OK, attended Oklahoma State University, and developed a love of sports that stayed with him throughout his life.

In1968, Denny was commissioned into the United States Air Force, proudly serving until 1994 attaining the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. He was proud of his service, and the discipline and friendships he formed in uniform shaped the rest of his life.

After his discharge, Denny returned to his role in the Air Force as a civilian. He was known among his colleagues for his humor and hard work.

In 1969, he married Kathlene (Young). Together they raised three children and built loving homes in multiple locations before settling in Yorktown, VA.

After his retirement, they relocated to Ruckersville, VA where Denny spent his time working in his garden and supporting all his grandchildren, as well as the UVA Wahoos. He will be remembered for his quick wit and steady presence at nearly every sporting event and milestone in their lives.

He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Kathlene; his children, KC Mueller (Mike), Douglas (Kelly) and Rebecca Ward (Zack); his 6 grandchildren, Tabytha, Drake, Cooper, Collier, Hannah Claire and Grant, and his sister, Judy Stogsdill. He was preceded in death by his parents HL and Lena Brock.

At his request a private ceremony will be held. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Wounded Warrior Project

An online guestbook is available at www.compassionatecremationva.com.

Compassionate Cremation Services of Ruckersville, VA is honored to serve the Nelson family.